Preparing Leaders for Difficult Conversations
- David Larlee
- Aug 6
- 1 min read

Right, picture this: The world is tearing itself apart over absolutely everything—politics, culture, pineapple on pizza. And in the middle of it all, church leaders are expected to wade into the chaos with wisdom, grace, and some kind of divine diplomacy.
Enter the pastoral residency—a proper, hands-on boot camp for future church leaders. Instead of sitting in an ivory tower debating theology over herbal tea, residents get stuck into the messy reality of ministry. They meet actual people with actual problems, learning to listen, think, and respond without accidentally starting a riot.
Under the watchful eye of seasoned mentors, they wrestle with thorny issues—be it politics, doctrine, or why Karen in the third row insists on clapping off-beat. It’s intense, it’s real, and it’s the kind of training that produces leaders who won’t crumble at the first sign of controversy.
Because at the end of the day, the Church needs leaders who can stand firm, love well, and guide their communities through this cultural storm without setting everything on fire.
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